Sunday, September 30, 2012

I Love That She.....

I love that she: 

-thinks she can do any and everything. If you seem to in any way doubt her abilities, she says, "I can do. I'm older." 


-has learned how to smile for the camera. Albeit the smile might be a little awkward, but after all, she is her mother's child. 


-is madly obsessed with turtles. She's so into turtles that she wants her birthday party to be a turtle party...with puppies. 


-wants full responsibility for dressing herself and loves to wear mom's 'moonday' jewelry. 



-pretends to be a puppy named Keekee for hours each day. Oh, you read that correctly. Always wanted a puppy named Keekee, so it works for us. 

Here's hoping your weekend was full of all things fall and that you enjoyed the rainy weather (assuming it did in fact rain where you are...) as much as we did. I introduced Libby to the movie Tuck Everlasting this weekend. Have you seen it? Bring kleenex. What movie are you looking forward or did you look forward to introducing your wee ones to? I'm always hunting new great one to share with my girls.....

Friday, September 28, 2012

Nothing But Thankful



"When people seek to fulfill their callings by glorifying God in their work, praising Him for their gifts and abilities, and seeing both their efforts and its products as an offering to Him, then work is an act of worship to God. On the other hand, when work is done to glorify oneself or merely to achieve more wealth, it becomes worship of false gods. How we work and for whom we work really matters."

When Helping Hurts by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert  pg.79



People have been asking me a lot of questions lately. 
For whatever reason, I suppose that quitting my secure, comfy job and taking a non-paid internship and traveling across the world in what will be twice in four months tends to raise a few eyebrows and furrow a few foreheads. 

And one of the most popular questions I am being asked is am I glad I did it.
 Am I glad I took the plunge. 
Am I happy with where things are headed. 

And the answer is an undeniable YES!
I have never (repeat NEVER) been more confident that I am right where I am supposed to be. 
Don't know if you know this, but it's hard to find a job working for Africa. 
There aren't many available. 
They're very competitive. 
And most of them are in Nashville or D.C.

And here I am interning in my own state. 
That alone is worth a happy dance.

And then God also led me to Noonday. 
I literally stay awake at night thinking about Noonday. 
I love everything about it. 
The women I work with across the country are some of the most encouraging, inspiring women I've ever heard of; let's just say I am in great company. 
And it allows me to advocate for those around the world who are trying to use their gifts to better their situation. I've fallen in love with their stories and so look forward to sharing them with others. 

And in NINETEEN days I'll leave for Malawi. 
While my heart already hurts at the thought of leaving my family for ten days, it's also full of joy at the the thought of heading back to the land I love. 

I honestly hope that everyone listens when God points them in the direction they are supposed to go. 
The peace that comes with being obedient, oh my stars, it's worth every uncomfortable question, every negative comment, every utterance of disbelief, and every furrowed brow.....times ten.

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

The Girl With The Jazz Shoes


One of the things that consumed my thoughts the most while I was in Africa was the need for shoes. 


I have never not had shoes. 
I don't even know that I know anyone personally who has ever gone without shoes because they didn't have any other option. 
Even my two-year-old has more shoes than she can possibly wear enough to make them all worth having before she outgrows them. 

But in Africa, you see lots of little bare feet. 


And it made my heart hurt. 
Shoes are just one of the many things I so take for granted. 
I have many pairs of shoes, some of which are seasonal or for a special occasion. 
Here in America we don't think twice about buying a pair of shoes simply because
 they are on sale or match that one outfit in our closet or because they are oh so cute. 

And most of us never think about the little ones around the world who are doing without.

While I was in Uganda, I was just in awe of the things the children there often do without. 
And while there is a happy median between all the things we have and don't need and they things they do without and do need, to me, shoes are a NEED, not a want, at least in the 'one pair to protect your feet' sense. 

I mean, seriously, have you ever REALLY thought about the importance of having good shoes to protect your feet? You may have, but you probably have not. Shoes are such a given in our culture that we tend to overlook their importance. 

I think I was just as humbled in that often times when I did see  children wearing shoes, they often didn't seem to fit correctly or were worn past the point of truly being functional any more.
 And yet they seemed so proud to have any shoes at all.

There are lots of holes and tatters on shoes in Africa.


But the image that stuck with me more clearly and that made the biggest impact on me was the girl in the jazz shoes. 



There's no telling where she got them or where they originally came from. 
I can just see one of my girls cleaning out her closet and donating them, thinking that another little girl somewhere will have fun dancing in them or playing dress up. But I don't think my girls would ever imagine that another little girl somewhere would covet them because they are either the only pair or at least the nicest pair of shoes she has. 

If you know anything about jazz shoes, then you know they offer absolutely no support whatsoever. Their primary purpose in dance is to keep you from slipping and offer some grip. They don't have a real sole. Your little feet are no better off than if you'd stepped out in socks that day. 

And yet, here she is...at school....in her uniform and her jazz shoes. 

This was one of the most humbling sites I'd ever seen. 
Her little image is burned in my mind as a symbol for the need to be thankful for all that I have and all that I have never had to do without. 

I truly see shoes differently now than I did before going to Africa thanks primarily to the girl in the jazz shoes. 

I am not proposing that you never donate your jazz shoes or asking you to give up the beauties in your closet; I am simply asking if you have ever taken time to truly stop and think about all that you have.

Some times all it takes to alter our perspective, after all, is a pair of jazz shoes. 

*If you'd like to find out more that you can do to help put shoes on little feet in Africa, Sole Hope is a great organization that works to do just that and offers aid to those suffering from medical issues due to a lack of shoes. They are doing great things, and you can help. They in no way supported this post. Heck, they don't even know I'm writing it. But I love what they are doing, and I think you might too.....*


Friday, September 21, 2012

Speaking Her Love Language

I am an only child, at least in the technical sense, 
as my step brothers didn't join my life until I was half way through high school.
So, this whole 'juggling two kiddos' thing is hard for me sometimes. 
I have no experience in sibling rivalry and how to make it stop, and here lately it has reached an all-time high at our house.
 Fortunately, I HAVE learned a few things in the past two and a half years though,
 one if which is how important it is to speak their individual love languages. 


And this girl loves to be in the spotlight. 
She thrives on one-on-one time, 
whether it's watching her sing the latest song she's written 
or taking the time to take through the latest picture she has drawn. 


She needs to know we listen to her and value what she has to say; 
she needs to feel like the priority that she is.
Making time for just us is a priority where Libby is concerned; 
my girl craves time alone with each of her parents.


And when her personal time with mom and dad needs are met, I find that there is less girl drama in our house, making the world a better place for all involved. 


Let's just be honest, dealing with sibling rivalry is not the most fun thing I've ever done. 


So we do what we can to keep it at bay in our house, including regular time alone with the Libster. 


Good thing she's fun to hang out with and makes a great movie/reading/window shopping/model in the backyard date. 

So while I still have two tons of lessons to learn regarding the whole 'how to love your sister unconditionally and realize she is a gift to you straight from God' department, this is what I've learned so far: 

find what works for your kid in terms of helping him or her feel loved.

 Maybe it's physical touch, maybe it's acts of service, or maybe it's words of encouragement.  
For this here eight year old, quality time is where it's at, so quality time she shall receive. 

Oh, and I'm sure you noticed Libby's accessories in this here post...
thanks for that, Noonday

Here are the pieces she's sporting: 


Here's hoping your weekend is filled with all things fall.
 Football, candy corn, and perhaps pumpkin muffins are on the agenda at our house. 
You? 



Wednesday, September 19, 2012

She Said YES and So Did I


I love this girl. 


Love doesn't do it justice, really. 

She is hands down one of my all-time favorite people to laugh with......


..and stay up late chit chatting with......


....and be creative with.....


...and have adventures with.



And she recently got engaged to this handsome fella!
AHHHHHHHHH!


And that question led to this question....



Megan, I CANNOT wait to stand by you on your big day!
Thank you for always being so wonderful to me and for giving me an up close and personal view of this special time in your life. 

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE you mucho grande, my partner in crime!



And now, for your viewing pleasure... I once again give you the greatest 'cheer me up' gift I've ever received. 


Megan T., you make my day. 

Sunday, September 16, 2012

My Heart Falls to Pieces


If you know me in real life, you know that my grandmother is my all-time favorite person.
I literally spent every day of summer with her all through my childhood. 
I love her to bits and pieces and simply cannot imagine my life without her. 


And now she's sick....very, very sick. 

I'm a tough kid. 
I don't cry at Hallmark movies or get my feelings hurt easily. 
But when it involves my grandmother, my heart just can't take it. 

Please pray that God's will will be done in her life. 
She is my ultimate Earthly role model, 
and I could not be more serious when I say 
that I don't know what I'll do without her whenever the time comes that I have to do just that. 

Please pray for her and for my family. 
I so truly appreciate it.



Thursday, September 13, 2012

My Little Libby

Libby turned eight last Friday. 
My BABY is almost ten. 
Oh my heavens. 
So, in honor of Libby's big day and in correlation with the recent Parenthood season premier, I've had the Parenthood theme song stuck in my head for weeks. 
I love it. 
And I love the message it has for my daughter. 
So, let's take a little stroll down Libby memory lane, shall we: 

May God bless and keep you always. 


May your wishes all come true. 


May you always do for others and let others do for you. 


May you build a ladder to the stars and climb on every rung. 


And may you stay forever young. 



May you grow up to be righteous.


May you grow up to be true. 



May you always know the truth and see the lights surrounding you. 


May you always be courageous...



....stand upright and be strong. 



May you stay forever young. 



May your hands always be busy


May your feet always be swift. 



May you have a strong foundation... 



...when the winds of changes shift.


May your heart always be joyful. 


.

May your song always be sung. 



May you stay forever young


Happy birthday to the girl who made me a mom. 
God has big, big things in store for you, little one. 
I just know it. 


Today Libby and I are embracing the camera over at my fav-o-rite blog
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